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Contributed by "S" in California

Where do I begin.  We were friends for  about 8 months.  Started dating.  I wasn't looking to be involved but i ended up falling for him.  He was sweet, charming, intelligent, kind, sophisticated, kind, warm, honest (so i thought), sincere (so i thought).  He was everything that I always looked for.  And since we had developed a friendship first i trusted him.  When we first became involved romantically i totally had my guard up and eventually i put my guard down because I assumed he really cared about me.  That's how he made me feel.  Well he ended up hurting me.  Like they all do.  Basically I assumed i was the only one he was dating i mean what would u think when a guys says stuff like " we always have plans"  "that means priority scheduling before everyone else"  " I was just thinking about you baby" " I  always want to be with you, just because ur challenging yourself and applying a bit of pressure to ur life doesn't mean I'm turning away, i respect the decision your making"  " things are fine, but nothing beats having your lady with you" or some shit like that... so who the fuck is ur lady????? why?????  how could i be sooo naive to fall for it??? How you a guy be totally into u one minute and be completely over it the next??? do they have on/off switches??? the worst part is that I think I'm in love with him.  Im in love with him and he doesn't want to have anything to do with me.   I LOVE HIM! I LOVE YOU!  I feel so misled,  I feel betrayed.  I'm soo hurt.  But I cant stop caring for him...


 

 

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