Hey girls,
Just a few hours ago I DUMPED a jerk...he was
not markedly 'jerky' for a long time, but lately he just IS.
I have surgery next week & tho we have been "involved" for a like
3 months now, he is totally taking me for granted...won't move my
stuff into my new place(I have 0 furniture for 1 month so far).
He shined a BRIGHT flashlite in my eyes other
nite AFTER
I made the creep dinner!!! He doesn't pay child support-
THAT should have been a red flag, DUH! He does not mind
"doing" me, but has a glitch when it comes to helping me when I am
indeed very alone and could really USE some help. SCHMUCK!!!
He has -out of the blue it seems- taken to habitually arguing
the stupidest crap( he is NOT THE SHARPEST KNIFE in the drawer,
for the record). Let me be frank: He is one DUMB S.O.B.
His saving grace for the longest time- till recently- has been
that " Yea, he's dumb as a bag of dirt, true, but he is so NICE to
me, so SWEET!"
Well, he is a jerk like all the others
now...I do not know how to prevent this phenomenon; it keeps
happening. They take me for granted at some point EVERY time
and I am over 40(I look younger)...I feel like a s---_magnet!!!
I heard some other SUPER-jerk use that term 20 yrs ago,
talking about some other chick( who actually WAS a bit of a
doormat). UGGH!
What I told him thismorning, when I was fed
up-last straw, etc, was "If you have such a hard time keeping a
promise and want to badger me about a ride from surgery-follow-up,
10 miles away, when I have NOBODY- I didn't say that as it goes
without saying-I'll just pay for a car ( I vow never to take
a taxi again..they are the biggest creeps alive as u may or may
not know, at least in my neck of the woods...I'd rather do that
than beg like some pathetic mutt to give me a lift. ANY
TRUCK-DRIVER last time I checked would be happy to do me the
favor!! But not my smuck boyfriend.
I blind-sided him
with a cruel truth or 2, that I was embarrassed to be seen with
him, and that he is an idiot-BOTH TRUE. It just came out.
I am very lonely, VERY, but I could not take anymore
smart-ass, cheap, stupid comments from a dummy and a weasel.
I will feel sorry later, but I will just deal with it.
GOOD
RIDDANCE!!! O&O, G in CA